Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Notice.

Lately I have been wondering if Mitch notices me, or the things I do around the house. I know it's hard to miss me; I'm already huge, I'm loud and I fill his ears the minute he walks in the door with stories of the days happenings.
But I mean, does he notice me and my efforts?
Does he notice that his bathroom towel is always clean? And that I switch out the bar of soap in the shower before it runs out?
Does he notice that his sock drawer is always full? And that I color coded them so that he can find them easier?
Does he notice the fridge is always stocked with his favorite juice? And that's it's always up-front and facing out so that there is never any confusion?
Does he notice that even though I may not have gotten a shower that day, the kids are always bathed and clean?
Does he notice how much of an effort it takes me to cook dinner with a baby on my hip, a 5 month pregnant belly, and a 3 year old on my leg? And that it's been a long time since I've burned anything?
Does he notice the effort that goes into just keeping the house picked-up, and not even deep cleaned? And that when I do deep clean it takes everything out of me?
Does he notice that sometimes at night I lie in bed and silently cry because I am so exhausted and every part of my body hurts? And that I get up the next morning and do it all over with the possibility that I won't get a shower again?
Does he notice?


Today these beautiful flowers were delivered with a note that said, "Just Because."
And when Mitch got home tonight he also thanked me for being so good to him and added, "I notice you work very hard to keep our family happy and I notice you."

So, does he notice? I know he does.

10 comments:

The Alvords said...

So so so sweet. I'm glad you are appreciated, every mom and wife deserves it.

Anonymous said...

This post made me cry. You are such a great writer. I really identify with you, and think you're awesome....which in turn would make me awesome. Funny ol' world.

Missy said...

Awww, Mitch. Well done!

Erin Porter said...

You are super woman Emily! It is hard and you do it all. I am glad Mitch realizes all the little things. I foten wonder the same thing with Jay.

Butterfield Family said...

That is so sweet! Don't tell anyone, but sometimes I don't switch out the bar of soap in the shower just so that Kevin will notice! I love that Mitch got you flowers, just because.

WRYUN said...

Sweetest thing ever!!!

Whitney and Family said...

Love this post. I don't know that they REALLY do notice. Sometimes I wish we could switch places for a week just so he can see how chaotic and crazy and just plain hard it is. And how I go above and beyond. But...then if we switched places I'm sure I would realize the same things about him. How hard and stressful his days get. And how he goes above and beyond. We really are married to great guys that work hard for us and our families. Way to send flowers, Mitch. You da man!

Jaime And Kalen said...

Good post Emily. It is nice to be appreciated and I agree with Whitney, somehow we should be able to switch places for a week-we would all really "get" one another! Good job Mitch, way to be such a great husband and Good job Emily, way to be such an awesome wife and mom!

Rogers Family said...

So sweet. Being a mommy and a wife is so hard. I wish there was some way for our mothers to have warned us, LOL. Your kiddo's are adorable and it looks like you have a great hubby. Hang in there girly, we're all feeling the same way :-/

Hilllary Howland said...

Emma,

Im pretty much the worst friend ever if I can even call myself your friend still! I can't believe you are 5 months along! And you obviously have the sweetest husband ever! You're a lucky girl even if you didn't get a shower today! :) Hope your doing well my dear!